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Connected Parenting

Jennifer Kolari

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Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions a ...
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Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

Jami Kirkbride LPC, Parenting Coach, Specializing in Child Mental Health

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Hello and welcome to Calm Connection Parenting! I’m your host, Jami Kirkbride—mom of seven, parenting coach, professional counselor, and wrangler of big emotions. If you’re raising a highly sensitive child with intense emotions, challenging behaviors, or a "spicy" personality, and wondering if you’ll make it through without losing your mind, you’re not alone! Around here, we’re all about real-life parenting, sprinkled with a little humor and a whole lot of patience. So, grab your coffee (tru ...
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Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom podcast! Find True Rest in Jesus, Rise in Your God-Given Authority & Raise Kingdom Kids Steward & Connect With Your Kids Through Gospel Centered Parenting, as a Busy Working Mom God-Led Wholeness Coaching in Faith, Motherhood, Wellness, & Mindset Find Clarity and Purpose in Your Motherhood Let Go of Working Mom Guilt Say Goodbye to Burnout Hey sweet mama! If you’ve been in a space of overwhelm, exhaustion, struggle, and feeling like you are just not good eno ...
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For some, failure is a motivator, a chance to prove themselves and strive for something even greater. But for others—especially highly sensitive kids, gifted kids, kids with ADHD, or strong-willed Gladiator kids—failure feels catastrophic. Even minor setbacks can trigger overwhelming self-doubt, anxiety, and shame. The truth is, failure is an essen…
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When your child is living with chronic emotional dysregulation, it can feel like the whole family is walking on eggshells. But what about the siblings? They’re right there in the middle, trying to process the chaos without a roadmap. What happens to them? In this episode, I’m diving into five essential keys to help your children—both the one with e…
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In this juicy episode, I am spilling ALL the tea about why failure isn't just normal—it's your secret parenting superpower! 💪 Think about it: Michael Jordan missed 9,000+ shots and Ed Sheeran was once a super awkward teen musician (he showed the receipts and everything!). Their "secret"? They didn't avoid failure—they COLLECTED it like badges of ho…
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Hey there, amazing parents!!! Today's episode is ALL about the transformative power of the awareness, allowing, and wisdom process. I'm walking you through my signature STEAR and PEACE processes that have helped thousands of parents shift from correction-based to connection-based parenting. It's not about being perfect—it's about being present and …
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Every child faces challenges when it comes to stepping outside their comfort zone—whether it's trying a new food, petting an unfamiliar dog, or speaking up in class. But what if we could gently guide them to embrace these moments of bravery? Imagine the confidence they could build and the doors that could open when they learn to navigate the unknow…
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In today’s episode, we tackle a question that many parents of emotionally intense children ask themselves: Is this just a phase, or is this emotional intensity something we’ll have to navigate for the long haul? We dive into how emotional intensity can fluctuate with age and developmental milestones, and how it might evolve into something that stay…
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Let's get real for a hot second—ever feel like parenting is just one giant tug-of-war? (And somehow you're ALWAYS the one about to face-plant into the mud puddle, am I right?!) In today's episode, I'm diving into my "Dream Relationship Strategy" – the exact framework I've used to transform my relationships with my kids (including my son who's turni…
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So there I was, wide awake at 5:15 AM in FREAKING NEW ZEALAND (yes, we're still traveling—more on that later!) with this message practically BURSTING out of me. My body was like, "Andee, get up RIGHT NOW and talk to your people!" So here I am, messy bun and all, coming in hot with some truth bombs about parenting that literally changed my entire li…
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Welcome back, Connected Parents, to another episode of the Connected Parenting Podcast! Today, we're diving into another installment of our Q&A series, where I answer real parenting questions from our listeners. In this episode, I’ll be tackling two important questions: Rob’s Question: His 14-year-old son has developed a mean-spirited sense of humo…
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Have you ever had parenting whiplash? You know, when your child goes from laughing to losing it in a matter of seconds? Maybe it’s because you picked the wrong-colored cup, said ‘no’ to a snack, or asked them to turn off their game—suddenly, you’re dealing with a full-on emotional eruption, and you have no idea how you got here. But what if I told …
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Okay, can we talk about something that's been LIVING in my brain lately? You know that feeling when you're absolutely POSITIVE you need to win an argument with your kiddo... and then suddenly realize that winning might actually be losing? Yeah, THAT. 🤯 In today's episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on something that's about to change your whole p…
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Today's episode is basically what happened when years of parenting, and one very persistent thought about "hard days" collided into what might be one of the most important perspective shifts I've ever had. Grab your favorite drink and let's dive into this game-changing conversation! 🌟 In this episode, I'm diving deep into: Why the most successful p…
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If you’ve ever thought, "Why does NOTHING work with my child?!"—you’re not alone. I used to think I had this whole parenting thing figured out, but then life threw me a curveball: a child with ADHD, mood disorder, big emotions, and challenging behaviors. And let me tell you… the traditional advice? It failed us completely. But when I made one simpl…
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I’ve had many requests from listeners asking for a refresher on the CALM Technique, and while I often direct people to earlier episodes, I think it’s time to go over it again. In this episode, we’ll break down how to use the CALM Technique effectively, especially when dealing with teenage boys, who can sometimes be a little more challenging to conn…
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If you've ever found yourself googling "Is it normal for kids to fight 37 times before noon?" or "How to stop yelling when everything is LITERALLY ON FIRE" – I just dropped the survival guide we've all been desperately needing with this episode! What I'm Sharing In This Episode In this workshop (which was SO good I just HAD to share it on the podca…
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We're diving DEEP into what it really means to go all in - not just in parenting, but in life. And before you think "Oh great, another episode about trying harder" (I see you, I hear you), this is actually about something completely different. Remember Eddie the Eagle? That gloriously awkward British ski-jumper who showed up at the Olympics having …
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In this episode, we’re flipping the script. We spend so much time worrying about our kids’ screen time, but what about our own? The truth is, our relationship with our devices is affecting our focus, emotional health, and ability to be present for our children. And let’s be real—our kids are watching. Have you ever tried to watch a show without che…
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Hey there, beautiful souls! 👋 In today's episode, we're diving deep into the messy, beautiful world of self-forgiveness and what it really means to "fail" as a parent. Imagine you've just had one of those moments where your kid's room looks like a tornado had a party with a hurricane, and you...may have slightly lost your cool. 😬 We've all been the…
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Moms, we get it—parenting can feel like a never-ending juggling act, especially when you’re also trying to advocate for your child’s needs. But what if the secret to being the best advocate for your child starts with taking care of you first? In this episode, Elyse Scheeler joins us to share her powerful PRAY acronym, a simple reminder to help you …
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Ready for some real talk about that annoying roommate in your head called self-doubt? In this episode, we're getting cozy with our insecurities (but not TOO cozy - we're not giving them the comfy chair!) and discovering why that pesky voice of doubt might actually be your biggest cheerleader in disguise. ✨ Key Takeaways: Why self-doubt is actually …
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Welcome back, connected parents, to another episode of the Connected Parenting podcast! Today, we're tackling a topic that many parents find incredibly frustrating—arguing with a teenager—but with a modern twist: the influence social media has on these conflicts. Teenagers have always been challenging to argue with. Conversations can escalate from …
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Finding your parenting confidence is NOT about being perfect and more about embracing your inner 'I'm totally winging this but also kind of crushing it' energy. Today we're diving deep into the world of self-confidence. The "Not Enough" Trap: Why this thought is about as helpful as chocolate-covered broccoli The moment I realized self-doubt was jus…
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For everyone who's ever looked at their parenting journey and thought "This is... not what I expected" - this one's for you. Bonus points if you're currently listening to this while hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace! Quick question - ever had one of those moments where you're just living your life, and suddenly you find yourself cryi…
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Negative consequences—while the term might sound harsh, the reality is that some kids truly thrive when they know they are surrounded by sturdy, solid, immovable limits. There are certain children, especially strong-willed or "gladiator" kids as I call them, who push back against every boundary—insisting they don’t need rules, testing limits at eve…
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Hey, hey, my favorite parents! Have you ever found yourself caught in the "should have, would have, could have" trap with your kids? Or maybe you’ve hoped (or begged) they’d just listen this time—and felt that creeping frustration when they didn’t? Yep, I’ve been there, too. In today’s episode, we’re diving into The Irresistible Parenting Protocol—…
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We’ve all had those moments where we put in so much effort, tried so hard, and still fell short. It’s frustrating, humbling, and, let’s be honest, sometimes it makes us want to give up. But what if those moments were exactly what we needed? In today’s episode, I’m diving into what happens when life doesn’t go as planned. Whether it’s your personal …
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Parenting can be a beautiful journey, but it often brings challenges that strain relationships. From the demands of daily life to the push-and-pull dynamics of kids testing boundaries, the connection between parents can sometimes feel like it’s taking a back seat. In this week's episode I explore how vital it is to protect and prioritize this bond,…
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Ever feel like you’re caught in a parenting Groundhog Day? The tantrums, the fights, the endless messes... all while you’re trying your hardest to hold it together? Same. In this episode, we’re diving into something I call the SOS Method—a simple but powerful way to shift out of survival mode and into connection. We’re talking about how to stay pre…
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Hey, hey, friends this week, we’re talking about something deceptively simple but ridiculously impactful: questions. Yep, those little sentences we toss around in our heads all day long are either helping us grow—or keeping us stuck. I’m sharing a personal story from my recent trip to New Zealand where a tug-of-war over a sea cave (yes, a literal s…
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Welcome to the first Connected Parenting episode of 2025! After spending the holidays with my family, I’m excited to reconnect with all of you. The holidays are often a mix of joy, warmth, and togetherness, but they can also bring tension, big feelings, and unresolved conflicts. As Ram Dass so wisely put it, "If you think you're enlightened, go spe…
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Ever feel like you're stuck in the blame game? Like if your kids would just behave better, everything would be fine? Oh, friend, this one's for you. 🎙️ In today’s episode of the Connect Method Parenting Podcast, I’m diving deep into two mindsets that can either make or break your parenting journey: victim mentality and vulnerability. Here’s the tru…
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If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop of parenting problems that never seem to go away, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing a perspective shift that will change how you approach challenges—not just in parenting but in every area of your life. We’re breaking down The STEAR Framework (it’s a game-changer!) and diving deep into how our thoughts …
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Ever feel like your child’s emotions are on a wild roller coaster, and you’re just trying to hang on for dear life? Trust me, you’re not alone! In today’s episode, we’re going to explore the world of emotional intensity in kids—and the avenues you can pursue in navigating a tricky path through the intense emotions and behaviors. Think of this episo…
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Hey, hey, everyone! Andee here! 🖐️ Let’s dive into a topic that is near and dear to so many of us—because, let’s be honest, we’ve all tried it—corrective parenting. You know, the old-school model of using rewards and consequences to manage behavior that doesn’t work long-term. Today, I’m breaking down exactly why. In this episode, we’re getting rea…
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Whether it’s January or August, Monday morning or Thursday afternoon, the opportunity to start fresh is always available. In this episode, we explore: Reinvention vs. Progress: How fundamentally transforming your mindset, routines, and beliefs can change everything. The Power of Questioning Norms: Why parenting by default rules (early bedtimes, din…
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Weaknesses—we all have them, but most of us try to hide, fix, or fight them. Here’s the thing: embracing your weaknesses isn’t just good for you; it’s good for your parenting. When you understand and accept all parts of yourself, you show up with more patience, compassion, and connection for your kids. In this episode, we’re talking about: Why avoi…
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Discover how embracing discomfort and leaning into challenging conversations and behavior can strengthen your relationship with your kids. Whether you're dealing with a teenage boy obsessed with video games or confronting values that clash with your own beliefs, I'm sharing practical advice on how to stay connected and supportive. By coming alongsi…
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Do New Year’s resolutions leave you feeling stressed or discouraged? 🙋‍♀️ If you’re a parent of a uniquely wired child, you know it’s not about just checking things off a to-do list—it’s about growing, learning, and adapting to what really matters. In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh approach: a simple tool that will guide you, motivate you, and k…
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Today we're flipping the script on parenting challenges, showing you how to ditch the “right vs. wrong” mindset and embrace a whole new way of connecting. Whether your kids are throwing tantrums, skipping curfews, or leaving their dishes untouched (again), my practical tools—like the Peace Process and STEAR Model—will help you show up calm, confide…
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With the holidays just around the corner, it's crucial to show up in a way that fosters beautiful memories with our loved ones. That's why I've invited my dear friend Jennifer to join us in this episode. Jennifer is a master at intentional event creation, and I've learned so much from her over the years. In our conversation, we explore the concept …
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The holidays are a magical time, but they can also be overstimulating and stressful for children, particularly for those with strong-willed or highly sensitive personalities. In today’s episode, we dive into the joys and challenges of the holiday season—especially when it comes to managing big emotions and behaviors in kids. Jennifer's Takeaways: W…
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Yo, friends! 🎉 Can you believe 2025 is knocking at the door? Neither can I—time flies when you’re trying to keep your kids alive and help them become amazing humans, right? This episode is all about a simple yet powerful idea: future-self videos. Inspired by YouTube personality MrBeast, we’re diving into how talking to your future self can spark cl…
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What happens when reality is nothing like what you imagined? Mary, the mother of Jesus, knew this feeling all too well. In today’s episode, we’ll take a heartfelt, down-to-earth look at the first Christmas through her eyes—her struggles, her questions, and the beauty she found in the unexpected. If parenting your uniquely wired child has brought ch…
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What if your thoughts are shaping more of your parenting experience than you realize? In this episode, we unpack thoughtwork, the powerful process of understanding and reshaping the patterns in your brain that drive emotions, actions, and results. Learn how tools like STEAR and Daily Peace help you identify subconscious beliefs, process emotions ef…
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Some parents shy away from using rewards or positive consequences, fearing it might feel like bribery or paying their kids to behave. While overusing this method can backfire, when used thoughtfully, positive reinforcement can be a powerful way to encourage better behavior, build positive habits, and instill confidence in your child. Join me as we …
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Ever wondered what parenting, Mexican food, jet lag, and 84-degree ocean water have in common? Buckle up for this episode, where I take you behind the scenes of my travels (hello from Thailand!) and into the heart of Connect Method Parenting. Here’s what’s on the menu: 🌮 How craving connection is a lot like craving Mexican food when you’re miles aw…
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Does your child seem to experience emotions on overdrive—outbursts that can be shocking, irritability that feels constant, and meltdowns that leave everyone drained? Parenting a child with these challenges can feel overwhelming and isolating, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re shedding light on Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD…
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Hello, friends! 🌟 Today, we're diving into the all-important concept of parental determination. It all started with a dinner conversation about cars that unexpectedly turned into a deep dive into resilience, grit, growth, and determination. I knew I had to share this with you. Here's what we're unpacking: The Power of Determination: Discover why de…
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In this episode of Connected Parenting, we explore why anger is often the default emotion for neuro-spicy gladiator kids. Whether they’re tired, scared, overwhelmed, or even hungry, these children often express their emotions as anger—a response that’s challenging for parents to handle. Learn how to decode the feelings behind your child’s outbursts…
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Hey, who do you think you are?! And who do you think your kids are? The answer is what I call a narrative. You've got one about bedtime, one about the kids fighting (of course), and oh, here's a fun one... the messy house. Yep, all of it lives inside the stories you tell yourself every day. Today we're taking a look at your narratives, and how they…
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