Your Ex's Inconsistent Behavior Is Because Of This www.modernlove.life Has your ex been given you inconsistent behavior that's driving you a little bit crazy? In this video, Clay Andrews talks about why you might be getting mixed messages or hot and cold behavior from your ex - what it's all about. Is you ex stringing you along or is there maybe ju…

Is My Ex In A Rebound Or Is It Serious www.modernlove.life Is your ex's new relationship, a rebound or the real deal? This can be confusing for a lot of people. So stay tuned through to the end so that you can get an understanding about what's going on here. ========================== Work with me: Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc…

Is It Wrong To Want Your Ex Back www.modernlove.life Is it wrong to want your ex back? That's what we're gonna be talking about in this video. There's a lot of people that will say it is. There's a lot of people that say it's not that we will get to the bottom of it in this video. And we'll give you some advice about what you can do to help make su…

Is The Breakup My Fault? www.modernlove.life Is the breakup that you've had with your ex your fault? And if so, what do you do about it? My name is Clay Andrews with modernlove.life, where you help you get the great loving relationship that you're looking for without having to play mind games, without having to play hard, to get in without having t…

Is The Breakup Permanent? www.modernlove.life Is your breakup permanent or can it actually be saved? This is actually a really interesting question and something that I've learned a lot about as a breakup coach over the past. We're gonna go into how you can tell if your breakup is permanent or maybe just temporary. ========================== Work w…

No Contact Doesn't Work Unless You Do THIS www.modernlove.life No contact is actually a little bit problematic and not a magic cure all! As I said at the beginning of this video, no contact isn't going to work for all of you. The magical and miraculous way that a lot of other people might be trying to make you think it is. I have listed down 5 thin…

My Ex Moved On And It Hurts www.modernlove.life If you find yourself in a lot of pain, when it seems like your ex has moved on, then that's what we're going into in this video. And we're going to be giving you some things that you can do some things to think about and some things to focus on in your life to help you feel better and to open yourself…

My Ex Is Afraid To Try Again www.modernlove.life What does it mean when your ex says that they are afraid to try again? And more importantly, what can you do if you want to move things forward? That's what we're gonna be talking about in this video. Clay Andrews will be talking about some specific things that you can take care of, some specific str…

Moving On To Get Your Ex Back www.modernlove.life/commit In this video, relationship coach Clay Andrews, talks about moving on to get your ex back. You might find this kind of surprising, but one of the most powerful things that you can do to get back together with your ex is to actually move on. I know this seems a bit counterintuitive. So please …

Why Your Ex Goes Quiet After A Great Interaction www.modernlove.life So you met up with your ex and you had a great interaction with him. Maybe you had a phone call, met up in person, went out on a date or maybe something else happened. But you had this great interaction with him. It was amazing. It got you thinking and excited, "Hey, this is worki…

Why Is My Ex So Cold, Mean, Or Cruel To Me www.modernlove.life Have you ever wondered why your ex is so mean or closed off or maybe even cruel to you? I know it can be a little bit of a frustrating or difficult thing to deal with, especially if you're trying to, you know, form some sort of emotional connection with them or reconnect with them. In t…

So Your Ex Has Moved On, What Now www.modernlove.life It could definitely hurt if your ex is clearly moving on, changing their life's direction completely or event settling down with someone else. This experience is definitely gut-wrenching and heartbreaking and this has caused a lot of people to go into DAMAGE CONTROL MODE, begging and pleading th…

Outsmart Your Ex And Make Them Want You Back www.modernlove.life Does it seem like no matter what you do to get through to your ex or to try to save things between the two of you, that they are just nothing but an impenetrable wall of excuses or reasons why things won't work, or just so stubborn that they're not open to giving the two of you an act…

Are you trying to create a connection or an emotional bond through texting with your ex? It's not highly recommended. You can do this, but it does carry some risks with it. In this episode. we're diving deep on the hierarchies of communication & what's the best way to reach out to your ex if you really want to get them back. Subscribe to my newslet…

Your Ex Always Noticed THIS About You www.modernlove.life/esp We are talking about what's something that your ex always notices about you, whether you realize it or not. Even people who have done a lot of research, who have watched a lot of videos on YouTube who have, uh, tried everything in the book, they're overlooking this simple thing. Hey ther…

5 Sneaky Ways Your Ex Uses You www.modernlove.life In this video, relationship expert Clay Andrews talks about the 5 sneaky ways your ex uses you and shares his advice on how to best deal with your ex when this happens. Breakups are tough and most of the time, people don't move on easy. Worse, they still stick around and use you.…

5 Games Your Ex Plays When They Want You Back www.modernlove.life Have you ever had the feeling your ex wants you back, but they're just playing games about it? That's what we're gonna be getting into in this video. We're gonna be talking about five games your ex plays when they want you back, but they're not being upfront about it. In this episode…

Get Your Ex Back When There Is A Third Party www.modernlove.life Is it possible to get your ex back when there's a third party involved, a third person who just seems to be inserting themselves into your situation - a new girlfriend, a new boyfriend, a new love prospect that your ex seems to be really interested in. Maybe your ex drawn towards this…

5 Signs Your Ex's Heart Is Open To Love www.modernlove.life What are some signs that your ex's heart is open to love? That's what we're going to be talking about in this video. And please stay tuned through to the end because we're going to be talking about some tangible things that you can do to get started with this as well too. If you've been lo…

How To Stop Coming Off As Needy, Desperate, Or Validation-seeking www.modernlove.life/ef Have you ever wondered how you can not come across as needy, desperate, or validation-seeking when it comes to relationships? when it comes to connecting with someone else and being able to create that kind of connection that you're looking for? That's what we'…

How To Change To Get Your Ex Back www.modernlove.life How exactly should you be changing so that your ex will actually want to get back together with you? That's what we're gonna be talking about in this video. And please stay tuned through to the end because we are going to be talking about things that you can do to set yourself up for success whe…

It's Time To Make Some Changes (Personal Update) www.modernlove.life The past 6 months have been challenging for me - a Mexico trip cut short, a couple of emergency room visits abroad, getting COVID and my mom getting ill. These things and more caused me to feel burnt out and off my game but thankfully, I am back now with a better perspective and g…

8 Signs Of Emotional Unavailability www.modernlove.life/rr In this video, Clay Andrews talks about emotional unavailability and some signs that show it. Understanding emotional unavailability can be very tricky thing to spot because many times it can seem like, "Oooh, love at first sight!", "She's perfect for me!" and all that stuff. There are a fe…

How To Let Go Of Someone You're Attached To www.modernlove.life In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about How To Let Go Of Someone You're Attached To. He shares about his personal experience of letting go of the fact that his mom has been ill and instead of moaning about it and getting caught up and exhausted about it emotionally, he chose to let i…

Why Is My Ex Taking So Long To Come Back www.modernlove.life/cc Why is it taking your ex so long to come back? I know that this can be a very frustrating thing for a lot of people out there but why is it taking so much time? How long should it take? Should it happen by now? All that sort of stuff. In this episode, we're gonna get into why your ex i…

3 Mindset Shifts To Stop Relationship Anxiety www.modernlove.life/ef In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY and what mindset shifts you can do to stop relationship anxiety. Learning how to deal with relationship anxiety is important especially if you have been spending so much time overthinking about EVERYTHING your ex does …

Why Your Ex Isn't Contacting You www.modernlove.life/rr Why isn't your ex contacting you, especially if you've already done certain things like using the no contact rule or writing a heartfelt letter to them or something like that. Now, if you're trying to get back together with your ex, if you're trying to save your relationship, you could find it…

THE Secret To Letting Go That Will Make You Extremely Attractive www.modernlove.life Letting go is an incredibly powerful thing. On most days, it would feel hopeless - like you will never get what you want BUT if you can do this correctly, it's gonna make you incredibly attractive to your ex. YUP, EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR EX! Relationship coach…

Is My Ex Keeping Me As An Option? www.modernlove.life Is your ex just keeping you around as an option in case things don't work out with them as a single person or in case their rebound relationship comes crumbling down? It's a difficult thought to have, and it can sometimes be definitely upsetting. Check out the signs whether or not they are keepi…

Why Does My Ex Act Like I Never Existed www.modernlove.life/rr Is your ex ignoring you? Are they walling you out? Does your ex act like you've just never existed at all after your breakup? This can be really confusing for a lot of people because, obviously, you did have your whole relationship and there was this person that you were totally intimat…

Is My Ex Just Responding To Be Nice? www.modernlove.life/rr Is your ex just responding to you to be nice and polite, or do they actually care about being in contact with you, connecting with you and knowing what's going on in your life? That is exactly what Clay Andrews will be talking about in this video. Clay talks about how to know which is goin…

5 Mistakes That Make Your Ex Pull Away www.modernlove.life/esp So there are a couple of mistakes that people consistently make that actually cause their ex to pull back and pull away further instead of pull them closer to getting back together. Many times, these people think that they're doing the right thing, that they're actually paying attention…

Understanding Your Ex's Journey Back To You www.modernlove.life/esp What exactly does your ex's journey back to you? In today's episode, we're going to be dissecting what the whole process - from breaking up with you, starting to miss you, rebuilding a connection with you and finally getting back together and recommitting to you. Stay tuned because…

Can You Make Your Ex Change www.modernlove.life In this video, Clay talks about behavior and personality and how you can't change your ex's personality. ========================== Work with me: Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc What to say to turn potentially devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for connection Ex …

5 Texting And Communication Signs Your Ex Is Waiting For You www.modernlove.life/cc In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about 5 communication signs that your ex is waiting for you. Oftentimes, our exes don't know for sure whether or not they want to get back together with you. But their actions will show that they are on the fence about making that…

#1 False Belief That Is Keeping You From Getting Your Ex Back www.modernlove.life/esp In today's video, Clay Andrews debunks NO CONTACT as the only tool that you can use to get your ex back. If this is an advice that you have taken from other relationship coaches, please make sure to watch this video and understand why it doesn't work for everyone.…

When Your Ex Ignores You, THIS Is What They Are Thinking! www.modernlove.life/cc Isn't it frustrating when your ex just completely ignores you and won't respond to you at all? I know this can be really frustrating, especially if it's after a positive interaction where it seemed like the two of you were getting along really well. What's going on? We…

THIS Makes Your Ex Less Interested In Dating Anyone But You www.modernlove.life/esp In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about the signs that you can watch out for to find out if your ex is still interested in dating only you. ========================== Work with me: Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc What to say to turn potentially …

This Type Of Pain Gets Your Ex To Open Up www.modernlove.life Do you want your ex to open up to you again? Do you want them to reach out? In this episode, relationship coach Clay Andrews talks about how you can use pain and pleasure to make your ex reach out to you and open up to you again. ========================== Work with me: Connect and Commi…

The Unique Way Your Ex Communicates When They Love You www.modernlove.life/esp In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about some communication hints that you could look into to see if your ex still loves you. Some of them include using the WE language, the FUTURE language and INTEREST in your life. Make sure to watch the end of this video for a tip th…

The Hardest Part About Getting Back Together www.modernlove.life/ef It's no surprise that getting back together with your ex can be hard. There's all sorts of things going on - their emotions, your emotions, rebound relationships, friends and family that are discouraging you (though they mean well) telling you things like, "There's other fish in th…

5 Signs Your Ex Loves You But Is Trying To Hide It www.modernlove.life/esp We're talking about 5 signs your ex is actually in love with you, but they're trying to hide it. These are gonna be kind of sneaky things. And we're gonna start out with some of the ones that are a little bit more obvious at first, but towards the end, we're gonna get into s…

This Is What Happens When Your Ex Moves On Quickly www.modernlove.life In this episode, relationship coach talks about what happens when your ex moves on quickly from your breakup. Make sure to finish the rest of this episode because this might be really surprising for you. When your ex moves on so fast, there's a great chance that it is a rebound …

Your Ex Will Only Be Ready To Get Back Together When THIS Happens www.modernlove.life Does my ex want me back? If not, what can I do to make them want to get back together with me? In this episode, relationship coach Clay Andrews talks about the one thing that your ex really needs in order to actually get back together with you and have a new relat…

Your Ex Will Want You Back If You Know This www.modernlove.life In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about what you need to know to get your ex back. THE EMOTIONAL CONNECT is an important factor that you need to focus on. You can be connection-focused or relationship-focused but being the latter one is toxic and is a trap. Focusing on your emotional…

How To Know If Your Ex Is Wasting Your Time www.modernlove.life "Am I wasting my time with my ex?" Today we're gonna be talking about how to tell if your ex is wasting your time or if you should just give up on your ex and try to maybe date someone else out there. In this episode, we're talking about the signs that you are wasting your time trying …

Don’t Analyze Your Ex’s Mixed Signals... This Is Why They Send Them www.modernlove.life/esp Getting mixed signals is confusing and frustrating. If you're still in love with the ex who's sending them, it can even be depressing! In this video, Clay Andrews talks about MIXED SIGNALS FROM YOUR EX - why they do it and why you shouldn't get caught in the…

I Keep Fighting With My Ex - How To Stop The Drama www.modernlove.life In this episode, we're talking about how to stop the drama in a relationship with your ex. Oftentimes, in our attempt to fix our relationship with our exes, we tend to reach out to them either begging or attacking them in light of the breakup that happened. Watch the whole video…

What If Your Ex Keeps Contact www.modernlove.life Is your ex trying to call you? Are they trying to get to meet you? Is your ex still texting you? In this episode, Clay Andrews talks about what if your ex keeps contacting you, why they are doing it and why they do. Does your ex still love you? Your ex wants you back hence why they keep on contactin…