Doing It With The Daniels podcast

1
The $4,000 Wedding That Built a 20-Year Marriage 38:28

21 dni temu38:28

38:28

Marriage is a journey best taken with divine guidance, something we discovered firsthand over our two decades together. Celebrating our 20th anniversary this year prompted us to open up our wedding album and share the authentic, sometimes hilarious truth about our special day. When we decided to get married, we didn't just follow our feelings. We individually sought God through prayer, receiving separate confirmations that we were meant for each other. This spiritual foundation became crucial as we navigated life together – a practice we strongly recommend for anyone considering marriage. God's tangible presence during our ceremony remains our most cherished wedding day memory, that divine stamp of approval setting the tone for our years together. Our wedding journey had its amusing moments, particularly when we moved our date up from July to April, prompting immediate pregnancy assumptions from friends and family! With just 14 months from meeting to marriage, we understood their concerns, but we moved forward with confidence in God's direction. The entire celebration cost roughly $4,000, proving you don't need extravagant spending for meaningful beginnings. The night ended not with romantic fireworks but with us crashed out in our hotel room, still in wedding clothes, Burger King wrappers nearby – a perfectly imperfect start that makes us laugh to this day. Perhaps our most unconventional choice was foregoing a honeymoon to purchase our first home. Closing just two weeks before the wedding, this decision gave us a place to build our family and proved to be an investment we've never regretted. Twenty years later, we can honestly say marriage has been a wonderful rollercoaster – challenging at times but ultimately fulfilling and joyful. Whether you're newlyweds, celebrating decades together, or still searching for your person, we hope our story encourages you to seek divine guidance, embrace practicality alongside romance, and find humor in the unexpected moments. Ready to strengthen your relationship? Subscribe to hear more authentic conversations about doing life, marriage, and ministry together. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Don't Ignore The Red Flags 32:00

28 dni temu32:00

32:00

Charles and Tesa Daniels share essential wisdom for singles on identifying and responding to relationship red flags that could signal future problems in marriage. • Red flags are warning signs that demand attention and consideration before making a lifelong commitment • Unaddressed anger and control issues often worsen after marriage, creating unhealthy power dynamics • Disrespect and dismissiveness indicate fundamental problems that rarely improve without intervention • Spiritual mismatches present significant challenges for believers seeking Christ-centered relationships • Dishonesty and inconsistency during dating predict similar behavior patterns in marriage • God will reveal both positive and negative aspects of relationships if we're willing to pay attention • Taking time to evaluate red flags can prevent rushing into a relationship that isn't God's best Marriage can make life "heaven on earth or hell on earth," so carefully consider who you're committing to for a lifetime. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
From Me to We: Adjusting to Life Together in Marriage 30:18

5 weeks temu30:18

30:18

Charles and Tesa Daniels share powerful insights on navigating the necessary adjustments couples must make to build a successful shared life in marriage. They draw from personal experiences to illuminate how the transition from independent to interdependent living requires intentional effort, patience, and communication. • Letting go of the "me first" mentality to prioritize your spouse's needs • Adapting personal habits and routines when living together • Finding balance between different morning routines and lifestyle preferences • Recognizing that men and women often approach consideration differently • Adjusting communication styles to prevent emotional distance • Learning to address issues promptly rather than letting them linger • Keeping God at the center of your marriage in good times and bad • Understanding that faith isn't just a backup plan for when problems arise • Giving each other grace during the adjustment process • Making these adjustments before serious problems develop Be willing to make necessary adjustments in your marriage and let God be God in your life. If you want to keep up with everything going on, don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share this podcast. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Happiness Is a Choice 29:53

6 weeks temu29:53

29:53

Charles and Tesa explore the concept that happiness is a personal choice rather than something your spouse or partner can provide for you. We delve into how finding joy in small moments can transform your relationship more than grand gestures or expensive experiences. • Small moments matter more than elaborate dates or vacations • Learning to play and laugh together instead of being petty during disagreements • Don't wait for special occasions to connect meaningfully with your partner • Laughter is a choice you must make every day, especially during difficult times • You are responsible for your own happiness and emotional wellbeing • Finding joy in ordinary activities like walks, shopping, or just being together • The biblical principle that "the joy of the Lord is our strength" applies to marriage Share this episode with someone who could benefit from choosing happiness in their relationship, and don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and check out our next episode of Doing It With The Daniels. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
How to Fight Fair 27:07

7 weeks temu27:07

27:07

Charles and Tesa Daniels offer practical guidance on navigating disagreements in marriage without causing lasting damage to your relationship. They share personal experiences and biblical wisdom on how to fight fair while maintaining connection and respect. • Stop trying to win arguments and focus instead on understanding your spouse • Words can't be unsaid, so be careful with what you say during disagreements • Learn to recognize when emotions are running high and take a peaceful pause • Consider timing and your spouse's headspace before bringing up difficult topics • Prayer changes how you approach conflict by softening your heart first • The goal isn't to be right but to preserve connection and unity in your marriage • Learn to discern between what needs to be said and what should be withheld • Fighting fair requires respecting your spouse as much as you would others in your life • Recognize when the enemy might be trying to disrupt your unity through conflict Remember that disagreements are normal in every relationship, but maintaining love and connection matters more than making your point or being right. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
What Nobody Tells You About Marriage 35:45

8 weeks temu35:45

35:45

Charles and Tesa share valuable insights about what they wish they'd known before getting married, offering a transparent look at the realities couples face and how to navigate them successfully. • Love doesn't fix bad habits - it often magnifies them • You can't read each other's minds - clear communication is essential • Arguments aren't about winning but understanding each other • Marriage needs maintenance even when things are going well • Friendship matters more than romance for long-term success • Money will expose your different approaches and values • You marry your spouse's family and their dynamics too • Investing in learning about marriage is crucial for success • Setting healthy boundaries with extended family is necessary Don't forget to like, comment, subscribe and share this podcast to keep up with everything going on with our channel. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Unequally Yoked? Navigating Spiritual Growth in Marriage 28:00

9 weeks temu28:00

28:00

Tesa and Charles share insights on navigating the complexities of spiritual growth within marriage. They explore the importance of understanding and supporting each other's spiritual journeys while managing expectations. The conversation emphasizes patience, love, and the potential for unity even when partners are on different spiritual paths. • Understanding individual spiritual growth rates • The risks of comparing marriages to social media portrayals • The importance of small invitations in spiritual engagement • Breaking the idealized mold of couple spirituality • Navigating pushback and pressure in faith discussions • Trusting God's timing for your partner's growth If this message resonates with you, share it with your spouse or other couples who might benefit from this podcast! Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Marriage Needs Fences, Not Walls: The Power of Boundaries 28:13

10 weeks temu28:13

28:13

Exploring the significance of boundaries in marriage offers couples invaluable insights into protecting and enhancing their relationship. We delve into the purpose of boundaries and how they can serve as a safety net against misunderstandings and external influences. • Understanding boundaries as protective limits in marriage • The importance of keeping others out of marital issues • Navigating communication with exes respectfully • Ensuring respectful communication as a vital boundary • Tailoring boundaries to fit individual relationship needs If you are enjoying our content, please like, subscribe, and share this podcast with someone who might find it helpful! Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Who’s Really in Charge? Unpacking Gender Roles in a Godly Marriage 24:38

11 weeks temu24:38

24:38

Understanding gender roles in marriage is essential for a harmonious partnership. This episode examines biblical insights, practical communication strategies, and introduces a gender roles worksheet to help couples navigate their responsibilities effectively. • Defining gender roles in marriage • The importance of premarital conversations • Biblical perspectives and their relevance today • Analyzing personal experiences and family influences • Balancing work and home life as a team • Continuous communication for ongoing understanding • Introducing gender roles worksheets for clarity Gender Roles Worksheet----- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xTED1chweAHwuJ3tx7RqEDV1Paf2IwZC/view?usp=drive_link Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Balancing Acts: Marriage and Ministry 26:03

12 weeks temu26:03

26:03

Balancing marriage and ministry can feel like juggling two full-time jobs, each demanding your time and energy. What happens when these worlds collide, threatening the harmony in your relationship? On "Doing It with the Daniels," we unpack our personal journey of navigating these challenges, sharing the moments of tension and triumph that taught us the value of teamwork and communication. We promise you'll gain insights on how to ensure ministry responsibilities don't eclipse the needs of your marriage, and how to nurture your relationship even when life's pressures mount. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
Just Get Over It! 35:01

13 weeks temu35:01

35:01

Could the secret to a thriving marriage be forgiving "seven times seventy"? Imagine the freedom of releasing resentment and nurturing a relationship where daily forgiveness is the norm. In our latest episode, we invite you into our personal journey as we navigate the complexities of marital forgiveness. We share how embracing this biblical principle has transformed our lives, allowing us to let go of unmet expectations and cultivate a healthier partnership. Through humorous and heartfelt anecdotes, like the chaos of managing household duties when hosting guests, we explore how resentment can fester if not met with forgiveness. Communication is the lifeblood of any marriage, but it's easier said than done. The episode unravels the art of empathetic dialogue over winning battles, shedding light on modern marital roles in dual-income households. We share our stories of transformation from a desire to be right to striving for understanding and compromise. Open communication and cooperation are vital in redefining roles to match contemporary lifestyles. We close with actionable insights and heartfelt takeaways, urging listeners to apply these lessons for transformative results. Stay connected with us for more wisdom to enrich your marriage and life. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
I Don't Like How You Talk to Me! 39:33

14 weeks temu39:33

39:33

Communication can make or break a marriage, and after 20 years of navigating the highs and lows together, we've learned that it's not just about what you say—it's how you say it. Tune in as we share stories from our own marriage, highlighting the power of both verbal and non-verbal communication. By understanding the subtle cues of body language and tone, couples can turn misunderstandings into opportunities for growth, fostering healthier and more respectful interactions. Non-verbal communication often speaks louder than words. Many of us pick up these cues from childhood, which can impact our interactions and sometimes lead to unintended hostility. This episode offers a guide to developing mature communication skills and the importance of navigating difficult conversations with empathy and clarity. By exploring how effective communication can prevent emotional distance, we delve into the true essence of maintaining a strong and supportive relationship. The art of communication is more than avoiding disagreements—it's about knowing when and how to tackle them. With insights rooted in personal experience, we emphasize the importance of active listening and the role empathy plays in preventing misunderstandings. From managing non-verbal signals to addressing emotional gaps that can arise in routine conversations, discover practical steps to ensure your relationship grows in closeness and trust. Plus, we share a sneak peek into our two books that can further enrich your journey toward a fulfilling partnership. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
New Year, New Us: Resolutions for Lasting Love 33:17

15 weeks temu33:17

33:17

Unlock the secrets to a thriving partnership as we, Charles and Tisa Daniels, guide you through setting meaningful relationship resolutions. Discover how transforming traditional individual resolutions into shared couple goals can enrich your bond, whether you’re reflecting on past victories and challenges or charting a new path forward. Explore practical strategies for keeping resolutions alive and making them a powerful tool for relationship empowerment and growth. Ever wondered how to keep the spark alive amid life’s myriad responsibilities? We delve into the art of maintaining romance in marriage, offering insights into understanding and honoring each other's love languages. Prioritizing acts of service, quality time, and open communication can keep love vibrant and prevent your relationship from drifting into routine. We also address the often daunting topic of financial planning, sharing personal stories that highlight the importance of joint decision-making for a harmonious and united front. Lastly, embark on a journey toward a healthier lifestyle that strengthens not only your body but also your connection as a couple. From introducing new habits to balancing differing preferences, we emphasize the significance of teamwork, compromise, and mutual support. Join us in cultivating a community where you can share ideas and seek advice, as we commit to supporting your relationship growth throughout the new year. Don’t miss the chance to bolster your marriage and life together with these actionable insights. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
The Power of Sacrifice in Relationships 24:16

34 weeks temu24:16

24:16

Ever wondered how to transform your marriage from a battleground of selfish desires to a sanctuary of mutual sacrifice? Join us on "Doing it With the Daniels" as we uncover the secrets of turning self-centered expectations into a flourishing, loving partnership. Through engaging stories and light-hearted anecdotes, like the quirky expectation of washing your spouse's car, we demonstrate how compromise isn't just a necessary evil but the first step toward a deeply connected and fulfilling relationship. Discover the profound impact of consistent, loving sacrifices on family dynamics and the harmony of household roles. We delve into practical examples such as rising early to prepare meals and explore how men stepping into traditionally female roles can reduce stress and bolster family unity. By celebrating small acts of sacrifice, we highlight how these gestures of love and care can strengthen the marital bond and create a cohesive, loving family environment. Tune in and learn how to make sacrifices that speak louder than any words, transforming your relationship into a lifelong partnership of shared love and mutual support. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

1
The Long Road to Trust...Again 30:35

35 weeks temu30:35

30:35

Can trust ever be fully restored after infidelity? Join us, Charles and Tesa, in this episode of Doing it With the Daniels as we unravel the intricate journey of rebuilding trust after a betrayal. We promise to offer you not just insights but practical advice on navigating this emotionally charged terrain. We'll thoroughly discuss why the effort required to mend a shattered bond is monumental and how both partners must be equally committed to the healing process. We'll explore the painful aftermath of infidelity, tackling the anger, frustration, and suspicion that often follow such a breach of trust. Discover why creating a "new normal" is essential and how setting firm boundaries can pave the way for genuine recovery. We'll also address common misconceptions, such as the belief that only the unfaithful partner must work on repairing the relationship, and delve into the deeper issues that both parties need to reflect on to move forward together. Learn why honesty and transparency are non-negotiable and how avoiding quick fixes like physical intimacy can help truly address the emotional wounds. We emphasize that consistent, trustworthy behavior from the unfaithful partner, alongside the victim's gradual process of regaining trust, is crucial. Offering comfort, seeking counseling, and staying committed to the long haul can often result in a stronger, more authentic relationship. Tune in to equip yourself with the tools and strategies necessary for navigating the rocky path of infidelity recovery and finding a renewed sense of trust and connection. Follow Us on Social Media! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingitwiththedaniels/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560523444982 Watch on YouTube: www.youtube.com/@DoingItWithTheDaniels…

The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

Pink Floyd At Pompeii - MCMLXXII [Blu-ray]

Amazon eGift Card - Amazon Logo (Animated)

Podcasty warte posłuchania