Motherhood is an endless teacher and there are four lessons I have learned now that I have four children, that would have helped me tremendously to understand when I had my first. This show is diving into the perspectives that can give you freedom to be the mom you want to be early on. Follow along for daily mindset on my IG @tessaromero_ Get start…

Do you love hearing positive birth stories and all of the highs and lows that can accompany a birth experience? This episode is for you. Marcus and Tessa Romero team up to share the home birth story and all of the fun little details and perspectives while welcoming their fourth son while answering some commonly asked questions along the way. This i…

Just know that my water broke as I wrote the fifth perspective into the notes of my phone! I've got the birth story of my fourth sweet baby coming soon! Use these five perspectives if you are nearing or go over your "due date" or guess date! Baby is coming soon either way, let's make sure you feel your best with a great mindset and vision. Learn to…

When you choose to view all that is happening as something that you need, you start learning A LOT very quickly. I completely thought I was in labor and called our family 2.5 hours away so they could be there for it, only to have every contraction stop by 11:00 pm! I felt so disappointed and like I had let everyone down or wasted their time... whic…

You're feeling tired, hormonal, uncomfortable and excited. There's a lot going on during the last bit of pregnancy before welcoming your baby! Let's make sure your mindset is in a strong place to be of service to you and your family! This one question will invite a whole new perspective into the mix that increases your intentionality and accountabi…

I don't want my first thoughts to be negative and swimming in the "happening to me..." mentality. Yet, sometimes they are. Here's a question I ask myself that lifts me up and out of that victim mentality and sets me on the high road of being who I WANT to be, no matter where I go or who I am with. This one might feel challenging to take in so know …

It seems a bit odd to me that when I share about serving seamlessly, the biggest objections that come up against it are fear based thoughts around "doing too much." Doing too much for our kids, spouse and others. Seamless service is not about doing everything for someone else. It is taking opportunities to serve others well when and how you can. To…

How will I get my kids to listen. How will I get them to get along with each other. How will they be okay in the world we have today? How will I know I did right by them? Trying to control "how" and "when" will leave you swimming against a raging current of negative thoughts. It's completely hopeless and exhausting. Today we are unpacking the faith…

Is your mind ranting and raving about how "disrespectful" and "selfish" or "anxious" your kids are? Time to change that with this podcast episode! You can find the MOMMY Mindset Course mentioned in this episode! This is incredibly sustainable work to do and I have it all prepared for you to thrive with in that course. Calm your mind and feel renewe…

On a recent family trip I got to take the role of "that mom" on an airplane. The one that holds a screaming baby while battling the negative thoughts in her head, swimming in the victim mentality and even making a snarky comment to her husband. That was me AND I didn't let it end there. I'm sharing the mindset I used to practically realize where my…

Have you ever had a "I'm going to spray him with the hose! That'll teach him..." kind of moment where you feel so, so frustrated at the choice your child made and the reaction is to do something that could be pretty mean?! I have, that's what I'm sharing here today. The mean and negative thoughts that swirled my mind. The complete urge to grab my s…

"How do you have a strong mindset on Mother's Day when _____?" I asked this question to my community and the answers came flooding in ranging from "it's just like every other day" to "you still do everything you normally do" and "my MIL makes it all about her." I've got your back annnd your mind with these 3 key steps that will be a game changer fo…

This episode is packed with helpful perspective about leaving your kids while you go on a trip and more perspective to get you parenting with your spouse. If you've ever cringed at your spouse parenting different from you or swore you need to do everrrrything the same as each other AND felt angry when that doesn't happen- this is for you. Email con…

My youngest son recently burnt his hand to the point of second degree burns covering his palms and fingertips, and I immediately knew it was something I could have prevented. The mom guilt was intense and the night was long for us. I'm sharing the story here in the hopes of helping you navigate mom guilt that comes in recognizing our part and how t…

It is a SPECIAL time to have our first podcast guest on the show! Ashley Emerick has been in my courses and shares her incredible work into transformation over the past 15 months. I know her story will instill hope that this is all possible for you, too. We then dive deeper into the meaning and perspective of having all that we need and how we, as …

My boys got into a heated fight while playing together and in my best efforts to help them create space from one another, I was met with "NO!!" I, personally, choose to keep my expectations very clear and focus on saying what I mean and meaning what I say. Hearing "no" in response does not deter me. HOOOOOW?! You're told "no"... now what? How do we…

It's episode ONE HUNDRED and time to share the whole dang story of how I got started in this work and three key pieces of encouragement for YOU. This is the whole story of where I started and desperately wanting to be a stay at home mom leading me to my first business venture that eventually became MOMSET we have today! Whew, buckle up for this one…

Man, the feeling of the "ah-ha" that comes when you uncover a harmful belief you've had for over 20 years is quite astounding. Let's call my weekend astounding then! I'm opening up about the hardship of my weekend, what was uncovered and how I decided to rise above it by BEING REBELLIOUS in the face of it. You'll learn what it means to be rebelliou…

You've been working really hard to pull yourself up and out of the victim mentality. Catching yourself in the "happening to me" shenanigans and steering clear of complaining the best you can. You've chosen to do this work annnd you have friends and relationships with others that are not on the same page! Now what?! You don't need to cut out every p…

Can you imagine a day in your life that you didn't think you're angry? You no longer saw yourself as the drowning mom that blows up over the little things and lost her sense of self? Let me tell you from personal experience, you are so much closer to change than you can even imagine!!! I'm so excited for you because I came from where you are at and…

This entire grocery trip and even the relationship with my son would be completely different if I had settled for a victim mentality. You can see the best of yourself shine through when the circumstances seem the hardest. Take your next hard moment as your opportunity to show up, learn and grow, and you will know exactly what I mean. If you want to…

Have you noticed yourself lacking compassion in one relationship or another? I have a mindset tool that you can easily apply in those moments and soften back into compassion for yourself and others. This episode provides the new mindset and several examples of how it works and what it would look like for you! You can join the Mind Body Alignment Sp…

This may be my unpopular opinion or maybe it's a shared perspective with you. Either way, I hope you'll take the time to consider just how necessary and beneficial reminders are in every season of life, especially the hard ones. I adore you and would love to see your mindset flourish in motherhood. Click here to receive details on my last group coa…

Goodness, I am completely thrilled to be expecting our fourth baby this July and grateful to be sharing the news with you today! This episode includes some personal details of my pregnancy that I haven't shared yet, as well as three key perspectives that help me so much during pregnancy as a good frame of mind to keep myself in. I hope this serves …

Oh man, does reading that title fire something up in you?! Well, if you take the time to allow this perspective to be delivered to you throughout this episode, there's a very high chance that you will receive it and the benefits that it can give you. Come in here with an open mind and know that there's a very good chance that your mind is choosing …

Motherhood, marriage and liiife are constantly giving us the opportunity to think greater and develop new ways to help ourselves be who we want to be through it all. That's what mindset work is to me. This constant focus and unraveling of who I am and what she thinks. This new tool is one that graciously found it's way to me in the middle of a hard…

You know how when you leave a dark movie theater and walk back out into the sun it can really sting your eyes? There's an adjustment period when going from darkness to light and that may be what you're experiencing right now in your growth! This episode will encourage you to stay the course as you continue making good decisions and persevere throug…

I love this community and this episode was directly requested by a fellow member in our MOMSET Tribe. She said "I wanted to make a podcast suggestion in case there are other moms like me feeling this. I love allll the podcasts but I constantly have this underlying anxiety feeling of "agh, it's too late. I've messed this up for my kids so much their…

I love it when I have a story to share of a recent experience and that is just what I have in store for you today. My husband baked my sourdough starter (that I have tenderly babied for a month to get going) to 300 degrees ... wowza. Now, I could have harshly reacted and expressed disappointment on to him and justified every second of my behavior, …

Happiest New Year of all time to YOU and cheer to us taking 2024 on with a clear focus on what we do want. Well, almost. First you need to do this writing exercise with me to make sure that happens. It is natural for your mind to get looped up in negative thinking and even though it is natural, it is NOT where you belong. You can catch that you're …

Really, the hardest part of doing self-discovery work is how painfully honest it requires you to be with yourself. Basically, if you aren't honest, you don't discover and you won't heal what you don't discovery. If you need a fresh, open, vulnerable and empowering community to up your accountability and a proven 12 week road map to get you in the "…

You've tried the black out curtain, sound machine, weighted blanket, reward, sleep consultant, prayer and routine and you kiddo is still an early morning riser. Well, same! I'd say you are in dang good company! My oldest is approaching 6 and quiet literally from the time he was born until now, he's been an early morning riser. I remember obsessing …

This Thanksgiving I intentionally decided to do something I swore I'd never do and intentionally avoided at every opportunity for the last 11 years. I chose to see my previous step-dad. I shared the full story here. I want you to know that you are completely free to be who you want to be and take all of the purpose from your pain and every lesson f…

"You shouldn't feel guilty for that..." Have you heard that little phrase being tossed around on social media or even in your friends circle? It's sounds pretty convincing right? Like we can just hype ourselves up and out of the feeling of guilt by chanting "I shouldn't feel guilty for this!!!" Only, that's not how feelings work and what does it do…

I've worked with women that have felt crushed by the weight of a past experience for 55 years. It's my own experience to carry debilitating anger and use destructive tendencies to try and "keep myself safe" for over 12 years. I know it is not time that heals our wounds. You don't need to count that time that passes in anger and make sure that you'v…

Click here to ⁠learn about REVIVE ⁠and join us at the only retreat I am hosting for 2024! This luxury retreat is for women wanting to be taken care of while you get to the roots of the anger, hurt and negativity you have been carrying. Truly the safe space to put it all down, regulate with new tools and go back home completely unstoppable to ⁠creat…

Holidays are in full swing and that means YOU need to get your identity and Mommy Vision on track to serve you because there is a high likelihood that something will feel difficult. Going to that persons house. The gifts or lack there of. Burning a dish or being responsible for all of the meals. Family conflict that may come up. Behavior firing off…

I get it, I really do. It's fun to say catchy slogans and our mind loves a good rhyme and humor feels really good especially in the hard times. Even with all of that being true, there is also truth that some slogans and phrases and rhymes and humor- are bad for us. They feel good in the moment and then unintentionally work their way into our subcon…

You know when you have a full circle moment as a mother? It's the time that your kids are doing something that you did as a child and you are the one showing up as the mother now. Kinda trippy! I had this moment when my two older boys fell down while chasing waves and got all soaking wet, sandy and very upset. I wanted to share that moment in this …

WELCOME to the Momset Podcast- I'm so thrilled and just giddy to finally share Momset with you over here. Momset is for you to come Raise Your Words and learn the tools that change your mindset and truly soften your heart through real healing and becoming the mommy you want to be in todays motherhood. I am still very much getting life figured out a…

I have noticed a growing nagging narrative that mothers need to do less and this podcast episode is all about drive my pointed tip pen into that myth bubble. Just over it. The answer to feelings of exhaustion is not going to be doing things that leave you feeling exhausted, uninspired, unintentional, procrastinating, avoiding and numbing. If we wan…

It was midnight on the second full day of my REVIVE Retreat that I picked up my phone, opened Instagram and instantaneously felt a dip in my electric energy and a cloud in my mental clarity. I noticed this soft thought say "please don't make me open that" and put my phone back down. I am using this episode to unpack the experience I had and why I d…

Have you ever felt persecuted at a doctors office because the physician does not agree with your life choices and priorities? How about feeling persecuted by a family member for the way you are choosing to raise your kids? Maybe you've felt persecuted by your spouse when you expressed an opinion or desire. The truth is, we are GOING to get persecut…

From one mama to another, I get it. I get the tantrums, night time wake ups, craving a quiet moment to yourself and feeling overstimulated in the daily details. I also know that even with all of that, you want to BE the mama you envisioned yourself being. You want to see progress in the intentional direction of your choosing and feel proud of who y…

I feel so grateful to have friends in my life that share their unique and bold perspectives with me so that I may be blessed with them, too. That's what I want to share with you today, too. It can feel really hard to heal when life continues to look the same way and we continue to think the same way about our experiences. A friend of mine shared a …

If I were to ask a mother who she wants to be, I would likely hear "capable" in that statement somewhere. I have been coaching my sweet mama friends like you for five years now and it's clear as day why we'd want to feel capable. Life would be easier if we knew we were capable, right?! I am bringing a new perspective to the party on this, after a d…

It's time we agreed on one thing, that we ARE influenced. Who you choose to allow into your head space will influence you for better or worse and the mind is such a fascinating place. The subconscious mind has no sense of humor so all of the "dark humor of motherhood" and little gabs at spouses and "jokes" about kids, are taken literally in your mi…

My sweet angel five year old boy is an early riser. Really, always has been and while I will say it is MUCH better than his 4:45 am wakings of his younger years, he still starts his day between 6:00 am and 6:30 am. Which is what it is as I have learned. Only, I used to think it's just who he is. He wakes up early because he is a morning person and …

In my newbie beginner ways of doing life over here, I am thrilled to find little ways to continue to share with you and encourage you to BE A BEGINNER and embrace the "one step at a time" point in life. If you're in a place to change something in your life and work on yourself, (aren't we all???) then it is time to condition your mindset to support…

Okay, I love audio books a lot AND I'm noticing my love for them actually comes from a limiting belief that "I am a slow reader" and "I am not good at reading." So, here I am. Devoted to reading everyday instead of just listening on Audible. I finished two books in the last three weeks and I AM SO PROUD OF MYSELF!!! Which brings us to this episode!…