Ep 4 You are Not an Alpha Male

Chasing Masculinity

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, we take on a modern misconception of manhood: the alpha male mentality. Drawing from Rule 4, You Are Not an Alpha Male, we uncover why this power-driven ideology fails to define true masculinity and explore what it means to live as a man of faith, competence, and integrity.

Host Colton Wutzke reflects on how the alpha male mindset glorifies dominance, control, and surface-level strength, but ultimately leaves men feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. Using Biblical wisdom, including the story of Moses from Numbers 20, Colton challenges listeners to reject reliance on brute force and instead trust in God’s guidance. He discusses the importance of competence, responsibility, service, and integrity as pillars of authentic masculinity.

This episode also emphasizes the value of seeking mentorship and surrounding yourself with role models who embody masculinity through humility, service, and faithfulness. With practical reflections and actionable steps, this episode invites listeners to leave behind the toxic traits of the alpha male mentality and embrace a more fulfilling and God-centered path to manhood.

Tune in to discover how to redefine masculinity, build meaningful relationships, and grow in faith as you step into the man God calls you to be.

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