#198 Chillin’ on a back road… then SUDDENLY…

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Chillin’ on a back road… then SUDDENLY…

Thank you for calling GIH where we instigate growth one call at a time where we utilize antiquated technology to deliver 3-minute leadership lessons every week day! This is message #198 and I am Aaron Havens.

What plans might you have for the next couple days? As I type this message a national holiday is tomorrow. So today, my wife and I have plans to get in the car and head to my parents house about 2.5 hours away. We are excited to eat lots of food, play games and visit with our loved ones. Tomorrow.

Today though… we/us and about 10 zillion other people will probably be driving somewhere. I’ve learned myself. It’s probably better for me to drive slow on the back roads. I don’t care if it the slower, less traveled roads take another 30 minutes. Less is worth it for me.

YET. What if even on the back roads we hit traffic. Something goes wrong. Our plans are overcome with inconvenience.

My friends. What do you do when you’re punctual plans are punched in the face. Does change and deviation cause you stress? It can for me. I’ve learned to stop for a warm beverage, put on some calm music and go with the flow. Nobody likes the red faced rushed road raged Aaron. If you have a hard time going with the flow in life, being flexible, not being in control… may I suggest three things that can help?

-Adapt to Change: Embrace new situations with resilience and openness.

-Manage Stress: Effectively handle stress by viewing challenges as opportunities for growth.

-Align Actions with Values: Make decisions that reflect our core values, leading to a more fulfilling life.

If today you’re willing to Let Go of Control: Release the need to control every outcome, allowing life to unfold naturally, Stay Present: Focus on the current moment rather than worrying about the past or future, Embrace Change: View change as an opportunity for growth rather than a threat. I bet you’ll have a way better day today!

Thanks for calling in today. Tune in tomorrow for a fresh new topic. Please leave me a message after the beep. How do you plan to embrace flexibility and go with the flow this week?