Episode #006 Hard Conversations are Sendy with Amy Lucas

Sendy Mom with Becky Brouwer

Episode Description:
In this episode of the Sendy Mom podcast, Becky Brouwer engages in a heartfelt conversation with Amy Lucas about the essence of being a 'Sendy Mom.' They explore the influence of strong female figures like Abigail May Alcott, the importance of taking risks, and the journey of self-discovery through physical activity. The discussion delves into parenting, establishing healthy boundaries, and the significance of listening and understanding in relationships. They also touch on the challenges of navigating friendships for their children, the art of mediation, and the value of apologizing. The episode concludes with reflections on facing fears, the importance of quitting when necessary, and the joy of reconciliation in relationships.

Mentioned in the Show:

On Apology by Aaron Lazare M.D.

The Depression Cure by Steven Ilardi

Freakanomics Podcast

We Were the Lucky Ones - TV Show

Hester - A Novel by Laurie Lico Albanese

https://www.goodreads.com/amylucas

Louisa May Alcott is My Passion with Susan Bailey

Boston Women’s Heritage Trail

Meet my Guest:

I get to talk to my very good friend, Amy Lucas today. Amy is a Mediator at Utah Dispute Resolutions. She finds a lot of satisfaction in helping people resolve conflict. I love talking to her about how she is able to get people to understand each other. She is great at listening and understanding people including her own children. Amy loves Lake Powell and is an avid surfer girl. She organizes a book group, and keeps up an incredible library of recommendations on Good Reads. Check her out at amylucas. She has rated 675 books! Her instagram handle is booknook75. She says she is risk-averse, but I think she is just cautious physically. Although, skiing behind a boat and riding a bike down any mountain trail would seem risky to most women. When it comes to friendships and relationships, she is one of the most sendy women I know. She continues to nurture relationships and has no fear of saying what is in her heart and mind even if she doesn’t agree. That makes Amy Lucas a Sendy Mom. Enjoy my chat with her today.

Sendy Spotlight:

Quote: “I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.” — Louisa May Alcott

Takeaways:

• Being sendy is having hard conversations, recognizing when you’ve behaved badly and apologizing.
• Listening to understand is a vital communication skill.
• Even people who are more risk-averse physically take chances in some areas of their life.
• Resilience is fostered and learned through experience.
• Get to work to overcome disappointment or weariness.