Affirming Gender Identity: A UU Message of Love and Trust | Tiny Pulpit Talks: 034

Unitarian Universalist Sermons and Conversations from First Unitarian Church of Dallas

Welcome to Tiny Pulpit Talks! In this episode, Rev. T.J. FitzGerald (Minister of Community Care and Engagement) and Rev. Beth Dana (Minister of Faith Development) dive into the Unitarian Universalist understanding of gender—what it means, how it shapes identity, and why trusting people to know themselves is a core spiritual practice. They explore the difference between gender and sex, discuss how gender expression is a beautiful act of self-discovery, and reflect on the harm caused when individuals are not trusted to define their own identity. Drawing from faith, history, and personal experiences, they highlight the importance of listening, supporting, and celebrating gender diversity within our communities. Rev. T. J. and Rev. Beth also share some powerful book recommendations, including I Am Jazz and Beyond Magenta, to help families and individuals navigate gender identity with understanding and compassion. Tune in for this conversation about love, trust, and faith in the truth of who we are. RESOURCES: The Trevor Project‘s 24/7/365 Lifeline at 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386) or TrevorChat, their online instant messaging option or TrevorText, a text-based support option: The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860 Do you live outside the United States? If so, check out The Trevor Project’s list of international resources here: 🌱 Enjoy the podcast? Considering a one-time gift to support the staff & resources required to keep it going. 💲 Give through PayPal, Venmo, & Apple Pay here: ✨ (Member & pledge-holders, please give in Realm.) 00:00 – Introduction to Tiny Pulpit Talks 00:46 – What is gender? 01:18 – Gender as freedom and truth 01:52 – Gender identity as an art form 02:28 – The power of self-discovery 03:02 – How Unitarian Universalism supports gender identity 03:42 – The history of UU and personal freedom 04:38 – Gender and colonial influence 05:21 – Polynesian culture and gender diversity 06:12 – Banned books on gender identity 07:11 – The importance of listening to lived experiences 07:43 – Trusting people to know who they are 08:48 – The harm caused by doubting gender identity 09:34 – Faith, theology, and gender identity 10:15 – Why trust is a spiritual practice 10:36– Final thoughts and words of support First Unitarian Church of Dallas is devoted to genuine inclusion, depth and joy, reason and spirit. We have been a voice of progressive religion in Dallas since 1899, working toward a more just and compassionate world in all of what we do. We hope that when you come here your life is made more whole through experiences of love and service, spiritual growth, and an open exploration of the divine. Learn more at New sermon every week. Subscribe here: Follow us on Instagram: Follow us on Facebook: Watch the livestream on Sundays at 9:30am, 11am, & 7pm CST: Give - your support allows us to transform lives and make UU values real in our community and beyond: