F*ck Fitting In

What The Actual F*ck Just Happened?

In this heartfelt episode, Meg Long shares a powerful story about a time when she faced public bullying from fellow stylists on social media. As other local stylists joined in, Meg reflects on the painful experience and how it shaped her understanding of true belonging versus the desire to fit in. She criticizes the lack of compassion in the industry, particularly within British culture, and emphasizes the importance of empathy.

Sarai and Meg dive into the complexities of mirroring behaviors, often misunderstood in neurotypical society but serving as a vital coping mechanism for neurodivergent individuals. They discuss how these behaviors can foster connection yet also lead to accusations of being a copycat. Through personal stories—including Meg’s experience being bullied for wearing rainbow satin dungarees at age 13—they explore how these experiences shape our core beliefs and self-esteem.

Meg also shares her journey in the hair industry, detailing the bullying and gaslighting she faced in a small-town setting. Despite these challenges, she reflects on the supportive friendships she has found in the Balanced Stylist Society community and wishes healing for those who mistreated her.

Key Topics:

• Personal experience with social media bullying
• The difference between fitting in and true belonging
• The role of empathy and compassion in social interactions
• Understanding mirroring behaviors in neurodivergent individuals
• The impact of childhood bullying on adult self-perception
• Healing and finding support in community

Resources Mentioned:

• Balanced Stylist Society https://platinumgiraffe.com/balanced-stylist-society

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