197. Conquer Digital Overload: Parenting Tips for Raising Tech-Savvy Kids [with Stephen Arterburn]

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In today's screen-saturated world, parents are facing a unique challenge that previous generations never had to navigate…

…how to raise tech-savvy kids!

Screens are everywhere. Your children may wake up to the morning news on TV. They might work on a laptop or even a government-issued tablet while at school. Throughout the day and into the evening, they may play a game on their tablet, text friends on a smartphone, or watch a movie with the family—maybe even all three at once!

Your children’s 24/7 access to screens will expose them to a universe of connection and content: some good, and some damaging. The influence of screens impacts the overall health of your kids. The reality is that digital overload often leads to decreased health and wellness.

The lure and influence of screens can leave parents feeling powerless. How are you supposed to raise a physically and emotionally healthy, socially competent, well-balanced child in a screen-saturated world?

This is a question that every parent wrestles with…

…and our guest, Stephen Arterburn, is here to help! Stephen has a personal parenting story of screen-related trauma in his family which lead him down a path to discover answers to the most common challenges that parents face in our tech-saturated world.

Listen in and discover how you can make a positive and powerful impact by raising tech-savvy kids who are aware, safe, and responsible in how they engage with screens.

You'll Discover:

The importance of flexibility
Practical tips for healthy screen habits in your home
Why the worst outcomes occur when screens are "outlawed" for kids
A helpful mindset around the dangers and the benefits of the internet
How to teach kids awareness, safety, and responsibility
How to help your kids move toward healthy choices and increased wellness

Resources from this Episode:

Book by Steve Arterburn and Alice Benton : Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen Saturated World
Episode 70. 5 Simple Ingredients for Healthy Tech Habits with Your Kids [with Rob Hayes-St.Clair]
Book by Andy Crouch: The Tech-Wise Family - Everyday Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place
Episode 178.Surviving the Turbulent Teen Years: Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent [With Dr. Michael Bradley]
Episode 73. 4 Simple Principles for Setting Healthy Boundaries with Kids
Newlife Ministries - Help and Hope in Life's Hardest Places

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Blended Family Breakthrough

197. Conquer Digital Overload: Parenting Tips for Raising Tech-Savvy Kids [with Stephen Arterburn]

Blended Family Breakthrough

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In today's screen-saturated world, parents are facing a unique challenge that previous generations never had to navigate…

…how to raise tech-savvy kids!

This is a question that every parent wrestles with…

Listen in and discover how you can make a positive and powerful impact by raising tech-savvy kids who are aware, safe, and responsible in how they engage with screens.

You'll Discover:

The importance of flexibility
Practical tips for healthy screen habits in your home
Why the worst outcomes occur when screens are "outlawed" for kids
A helpful mindset around the dangers and the benefits of the internet
How to teach kids awareness, safety, and responsibility
How to help your kids move toward healthy choices and increased wellness

Resources from this Episode:

Book by Steve Arterburn and Alice Benton : Understanding and Loving Your Child in a Screen Saturated World
Episode 70. 5 Simple Ingredients for Healthy Tech Habits with Your Kids [with Rob Hayes-St.Clair]
Book by Andy Crouch: The Tech-Wise Family - Everyday Steps for Putting Technology in Its Proper Place
Episode 178.Surviving the Turbulent Teen Years: Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent [With Dr. Michael Bradley]
Episode 73. 4 Simple Principles for Setting Healthy Boundaries with Kids
Newlife Ministries - Help and Hope in Life's Hardest Places

Ready for some extra support?
You can connect with us for a free coaching call - schedule your FREE call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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Parenting in a blended family can be tough — especially when your ex has completely different rules and expectations. Today, we're tackling a common source of frustration: navigating household differences. We'll uncover the four biggest myths that keep blended couples stuck and reveal the counteractive truths that bring clarity, confidence, and collaboration. Plus, we’ll share our Four A’s strategy for communicating with your ex to build more consistency between homes. You'll Discover: The four myths about parenting across different households—and what you can do to move beyond delusion, confusion, and frustration. How to establish healthy boundaries in your home without trying to control the other home. Why "Our home is our zone" should be your mantra. How to avoid fear-based parenting and hold firm to your values—even when they don't align with the other home. A simple four-step communication framework to foster better co-parenting collaboration and create more consistency for your kids. Resources from this Episode: All Episodes on Parenting and Discipline All Episodes on Co-Parenting Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!…

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Resources Episode 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with your Ex-Spouse Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress Episode 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two Homes Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt the Kids Episode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former Spouse Episode 67. The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already Know Episode 31. Unexpected Ways to Improve How You Cope with You Ex Episode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts , too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you. We really appreciate your feedback!…

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Does it ever feel like you are miles apart as a couple when it comes to leading your blended family? In this episode, we dive into the most common partnership pitfalls that couples face. From feeling unheard and untrusted to navigating misaligned parenting expectations, we unpack the challenges that often create disconnection, stress and conflict. We also share practical tools to shift from frustration to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork. You'll Discover: How assumptions about each other's motives can fuel conflict The impact of feeling unheard or untrusted in a blended family dynamic Practical strategies to stay connected and solve problems together How to build resiliency and effective communication in your relationship Resources from this Episode: Episode 204. 4 Facets of Stepparenting: Defining Appropriate Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1) Episode 205. 4 Facets of Parenting: What Bio-Parents Need to Know to Achieve Best Outcomes (Part 2) Episode 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family? Episode 134. How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a Couple Episode 59. Why are you stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance? Episode 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them Out Episode 167. Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal] Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids Episode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship? Episode 203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United Team Episode 79. 4 Conflict Communication Patterns That are Hurtful and Toxic to Your Relationship Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (The Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic) Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a FREE coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession…

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Resources Episode 74. How to Develop Appropriate and Effective Consequences that Empower Responsibility Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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We know firsthand that parenting in a blended family isn’t the same as parenting in a first family. A biological parent's role is crucial in helping kids adjust to change, supporting step-relationships, and keeping things running smoothly. But here’s the challenge—many bio parents either hold too tightly to their old parenting patterns or step back too quickly and expect their spouse to fill in. Both can create major tension. In this episode, we’re breaking down the four key facets of parenting and defining the roles and responsibilities of the bio-parent: Meeting practical needs while avoiding unnecessary friction Providing support while managing shifting priorities Teaching important life lessons - and overcoming parental blind spots Delivering discipline in a way that strengthens relationships rather than tearing them apart If you’ve ever felt stuck between your kids and your spouse—or if you’ve struggled with guilt, fear, or parental paralysis—this episode is for you. You'll Discover: The most common 'easy wrong turns' that bio parents make when trying to “blend” the family How to avoid creating unnecessary frustration, and resentment in your home Why bio parents need to lead in discipline—and how to set step relationships up for success How to provide boundaries and emotional support for your kids without letting guilt or fear take over Strategies for building an effective parenting partnership — even when you see things differently Resources from this Episode: Episode 204. 4 Facets of Parenting: Clarifying the Roles and Responsibilities (Part 1) Episode 163. How Intentionality Helped One Couple to Accomplish a Successful Blend [with Sean & Staci] Episode 81. How a Missing Bio-Parent Impacts Kids in the Delicate Blending Process (Part 1 of 2) Episode 132. How do loss and grief impact blended family integration? Episode 108. 3 Unity Breakers that are Detrimental to Your Connection and How You Can Avoid Them Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger Dynamic) Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve Episode 49. Should your highest priority be your marriage - or your kids? Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy) Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession…

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Resources Episode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational Tension Episode 149. How to "Blend" Holiday Traditions and Create Meaningful Connection This Season Episode 85. How to Uniquely Build More Love and Connection in Your Blended Family [with Ron Deal] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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Stepparenting raises many questions: What’s my role? How involved should I be? What if my stepkids don’t accept me? It’s easy to make wrong turns without even realizing it. In this episode, we’re delving into four key facets of parenting: meeting practical needs, providing support, teaching life lessons, and delivering discipline. We'll uncover the unique roles and responsibilities of a stepparent regarding each facet and define what's appropriate and inappropriate. If you’re feeling frustrated, disconnected, or unsure how to navigate parenting in your blended family, this conversation is for you! We’ll share best practices, real-life examples (yes, including our own!), and strategies to help you stay in your lane while building healthy bonds with your stepkids and strengthening your parenting partnership. You'll Discover: Why stepparents should focus on connection before correction How to support your stepkids and meet practical needs without overstepping or experiencing resentment The best approach for building genuine connection, trust, and respect with your stepkids Why delivering discipline too soon can backfire—and what to do instead A simple but powerful strategy to create a strong parenting partnership with your spouse and reduce tension in your home Resources from this Episode: Episode 47. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You're Feeling Frustrated and Annoyed Episode 39. How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Stepkids Episode 9. A Surprisingly Simple Strategy for Bonding with Step-Kids Episode 29. What is a Loyalty Bind and What Can You Do About It? Episode 102. 4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parents and their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2) Episode 192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids (Transfer of Power Strategy) Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary Chapman Stepparenting: Keeping it Sane by Charles Fay, Ph.D. In Their Shoes by Lauren Reitsema Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal Ready for some extra support? Connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession…

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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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203. How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United Team 1:02:53

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In this episode, we’re delving into a common challenge for blended family couples: decision-making and problem-solving. Whether managing kids’ expectations, negotiating with an ex, or facing the pain of being a “trapped teammate” or “stranded stranger,” disagreement and differing perspectives can create tension and keep you stuck. We’ve been there ourselves, and we share relatable stories, including a meltdown at the mall over a swimsuit and how it almost derailed our unity. Plus, we unpack practical strategies that have been game-changers for us and the couples we coach. We believe every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making and problem-solving that helps them stay united and avoid confusion, pain, and disconnection. Grab a coffee, sit back, and let’s tackle this together. You'll Discover How to avoid falling into the "trapped teammate" or "stranded stranger" dynamic. Three key “DON’TS” that will safeguard your relationship from unnecessary conflict. A powerful brainstorming hack to make decisions and solve problems as a united team. How to manage decision-making pressures from kids and ex-spouses. Practical tips to stay connected and strengthen teamwork in tough moments. Resources from this Episode Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron and Nan Deal] Episode 21: What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience Episode 22: One Simple - and Romantic - Way to Combat Being Stranded or Trapped Episode 23: How to Move From Feeling Stranded to Being Connected Episode 24: What if You Could Relieve the Trapped Teammate Pressure? Episode 95: Do You Dread Negotiating Schedule Changes with your Ex - Try These 5 Practical Tips Episode 13: How to Parent as a Team in Your Blended Family Episode 83: 4 Everyday Favoritism Traps that Dishearten Kids in a Blended Family Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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Resources Episode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal] 1:16:12

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No one enjoys being in conflict with their spouse. But the reality for every couple is that conflict is unavoidable. We all experience disagreement that leads to conflict. But there's a big difference between doing conflict well versus spiraling into unproductive patterns where we say and do things that at best aren't helpful and at worst erode love and trust in our relationship. You can probably relate. Your spouse does something that triggers a painful emotion and you react. You might blame, shame yourself, take control, or try to avoid the whole situation. It's natural and normal for all of us to react these ways, but you don't have to stay stuck in unproductive, damaging patterns. You can learn to do conflict well, just like we have! In this episode, our friends Ron and Nan Deal share their personal journey. After hitting rock bottom in their marriage, finding restoration, and discovering the tools that transformed their relationship, they've written an amazing book called The Mindful Marriage . Their new book breaks down powerful concepts into relatable, practical steps for couples everywhere. Ron and Nan are popular speakers who specialize in restoration therapy, blended families, and supporting grieving parents. Ron, a bestselling author, licensed marriage and family therapist, and podcaster, also serves as a senior director at FamilyLife. Nan, a retired teacher, now champions her community through Live Thankfully. From navigating destructive cycles of conflict and emotional pain to increasing love, trust, and intimacy in your relationship — today's conversation is full of hope, encouragement, and actionable wisdom! What You'll Learn: Identifying and breaking free from pain cycles in your relationship. Practical steps to create a “peace cycle” that strengthens love and trust. Insights into how family history impacts marriage dynamics. Why emotional regulation is a game-changer for blended families. The importance of “usness” in building a thriving relationship. Resources Mentioned: The Mindful Marriage by Ron and Nan Deal Restoration Therapy model by Dr. Terry Hargrave Bonus materials are available at RonDeal.org Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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Resources Episode 139: The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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How serious are you about creating enjoyment and fun in your relationship (and in your home)? You probably started off your relationship experiencing lots of enjoyment as you were getting to know each other and falling in love. But as the busyness and stress of blended family life set in, maybe your enjoyment started to wane a bit. The truth is, if you want to increase enjoyment and safeguard your relationship, then you've got to take FUN seriously! Our friends Rich and Christa blended their family 13 years ago. Although they've had their share of ups and downs, they've managed to make fun a top priority… …and they've reaped the benefits of deep connection, laughter, and genuine enjoyment in their relationship (and in their home). Rich and Christa are on a mission to strengthen marriages and families in a culture that's losing hope. They want to help couples avoid the tragedy of divorce and enjoy a thriving marriage full of joy, friendship, and fun. Join us for a raucous conversation as Rich and Christa share practical — and serious — ways they've discovered to increase fun and how you can do the same. What You’ll Learn Why fun is a safeguard for your marriage and how it deepens connection. How to create a family culture of fun, even in challenging stepfamily dynamics. The importance of “micro-moves of fun” and small intentional gestures. Practical ways to align your schedule and priorities to boost enjoyable couple time. How to balance personal expectations with the realities of blended family life. Resources Mentioned Episode 200. A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Exploring the Secrets to Lasting Love Click here to connect with Rich and Christa Book by John Gottman: 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work Book by Sam Jolman: The Sex Talk You Never Got Click here to learn more about Weekend to Remember marriage events To learn more about our Relate Strong program, CLICK HERE to schedule your FREE coaching call Episode 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational Tension Episode 146. Friendship and Connection or Friction and Distance - what's the state of your relationship? Actionable Takeaways Define Your Fun: Identify activities you and your spouse enjoy and prioritize them in your schedule. Celebrate Small Wins: Whether it’s playful traditions like funny birthday cake messages or silly rituals, embrace the small moments. Move at Your Child’s Pace: Honor your stepchild’s readiness for connection without pushing. Small cracks in the door can lead to big breakthroughs over time. Model Connection: Let your kids see you laughing and enjoying each other—it’s a powerful way to teach them about healthy relationships. Invest in Growth: Attend retreats, read books together, or explore coaching programs to strengthen your marriage and family bonds.…

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Resources Episode 151. What has the potential to steal your joy and how can you hold onto it? (Part 1 of 2) Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed to or following the podcast yet? If not, we encourage you to do so today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review , select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!…

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