In this conversation, Sophia and Brandon Hyde explore the concept of the mental load of motherhood, discussing their personal experiences and insights gained over eight years of navigating shared responsibilities in parenting. They delve into the Fair Play system, which provides a framework for understanding and distributing the mental load, emphasizing the importance of awareness, planning, and execution in managing household tasks. The couple reflects on the impact of traditional gender roles on their relationship and the challenges of delegating responsibilities, while also highlighting the significance of compromise and communication in achieving a more equitable partnership. They discuss their differing approaches to finances, the importance of understanding personality types, and the necessity of delegating tasks to reduce mental load. The couple shares personal anecdotes about hiring help, the challenges of managing household chores, and the significance of valuing each other's time equally. Through their experiences, they highlight the importance of communication and collaboration in maintaining a healthy relationship. Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Mental Load of Motherhood 03:04 Discovering the Concept of Mental Load 05:57 The Impact of Gender Roles on Mental Load 09:03 Fair Play: A System for Shared Responsibilities 12:06 The Importance of Concept, Planning, and Execution 14:51 Navigating the Challenges of Delegation 18:07 The Role of Minimum Standard of Care 21:08 Trial and Error in Shared Responsibilities 34:09 Navigating Financial Responsibilities in Marriage 39:18 Understanding Personality Types and Financial Management 45:04 The Importance of Delegating Household Tasks 50:28 Hiring Help: When to Delegate and When to Retain Control 54:41 Awareness of Mental Load in Relationships 01:00:11 Valuing Time Equally in Household Responsibilities Keywords mental load, motherhood, gender roles, Fair Play, shared responsibilities, parenting, mental load awareness, delegation, minimum standard of care, family dynamics, finances, marriage, mental load, personality types, delegation, household tasks, hiring help, communication, equal responsibilities, relationship dynamics Purchase your copy of Unleash Your Favorite Self book and the corresponding journal . Interested in one-on-one coaching? Click here to schedule a Roadmap session with Sophia. Download the Favorite Self app in the Apple Store or Google Play . Connect with Sophia on Facebook , Instagram or YouTube Have a topic you would love to hear Sophia address on the podcast? Send your ideas to hello@sophiahyde.com…