Episode 336: Not Having Sex Is The Latest Sex Trend

Sex and Psychology Podcast

A growing number of people seem to be hitting the pause button on their sex lives, which is why terms like “volcel” (short for voluntary celibacy) and “boysober” are trending on social media. So what’s this all about? Why is not having sex the hot new sex trend? Let’s talk about it. In today’s show, we’re going to explore the rise of voluntary celibacy and what you need to know about it.

I am joined once again by Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons, an award-winning Associate Professor at Emory University’s Rollins School of Public Health, where she studies sexual wellness and liberation. With over 70 published articles, Dr. Hargons has made substantial contributions to the field. Her debut book titled Good Sex will be published in February 2025.

Some of the specific topics we discuss in this episode include:

• What does it really mean to be voluntarily celibate?
• Why might someone choose to take a break from sex for a while?
• Why does voluntary celibacy seem to be more popular among women than men?
• What are the potential benefits and challenges of celibacy?
• If you’re taking a break from sex, how can you make the most of it?

You can check out Candice’s website to learn more about her work.

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