Najlepsze podcasty z kategorii: Martinkus (2024)

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New Life Live: September 6, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Screens, Bipolar, Incarceration, Marijuana, Boundaries, Verbal Abuse, Affairs, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns shares how to create a media-safe home. Where do I go with my relationship with my 23yo son after he set a fire in our house? My ex-husband wa…

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New Life Live: September 5, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Siblings, Triggers, Childhood Trauma, Negative Thoughts, Adult Children, Depression, Emotional Abuse, People Pleasers, Anxiety Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about sibling significance and snares. I grew up on the streets and violent intrusive thoughts are increasin…

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New Life Live: September 4, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Parenting, In-laws, Controllers, Teens, Screens, Grandparenting, Marijuana, Boundaries, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams and Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns shares how presence mattered to Jesus when He blessed the children that were brought to Him after the disciples had rebuked the parents. My sister-in-law is bossy;…

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New Life Live: September 3, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Enabling, Mother Issues, Divorce, Reconciliation, Bipolar Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares that wives with good intentions can unintentionally enable angry mistreating husbands to continue in their abusive patterns. I feel like I’m not man enough to be the husband my …

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New Life Live: September 2, 2024 48:04

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Topics: In-laws, Mother Issues, Separation, Emotional Abuse, Adult Children, Witchcraft, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about the small, annoying changes of life and how they affect us. My husband is a people pleaser, and his toxic mom blocked me on Facebook. Now …

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New Life Live: August 30, 2024 48:04

7d ago48:04

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Topics: Self Worth, Sexual Integrity, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, Grief, Anxiety, Alcohol, Marijuana, Boundaries Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares about the dangers of comparing your appearance to others. My husband had a mental breakdown, and I found out…

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New Life Live: August 29, 2024 48:05

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Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, Lying, Laziness, Separation, Finances, Alcohol, Christian Walk, Evangelizing Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc Cameron shares how to help toddlers and teens develop independence. My wife had a hidden opioid addiction for 10yrs and quit, but the bad habit of lying still …

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New Life Live: August 28, 2024 48:04

9d ago48:04

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Topics: Communication, Mother Issues, Adult Children, Parenting, Estrangement, Divorce Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, and Restore presenter Stacey Sadler-Smith Caller Questions & More: Stacey Sadler-Smith shares about attachment and explicit and implicit communication. My mom had me when she was young and has become an overly involved grandp…

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New Life Live: August 27, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Adult Children, Parenting, Teens, Self Worth, Sexual Abuse, Incarceration Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns asks, “Do you want a good relationship with your adult children or do you want to be right?” I’m divorced and frustrated with my 16yo son who talks back to me; how do I stop …

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New Life Live: August 26, 2024 48:04

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Topics: Legal Issues, Siblings, Adult Children, End of Life, Grief, Boundaries, Marijuana, Mother Issues, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Becky Brown shares about asking ourselves, “What’s it like to be on the other side of me? Is that who I want to be?” How do I defend myself after filing…

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New Life Live: August 23, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Communication, Trauma, Grandparenting, Teens, Retirement, Finances, Christian Walk Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares how we retraumatize people with the feedback we give them. How can I help my 17yo grandson feel like I’m not his enemy? He gets high, skips …

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New Life Live: August 22, 2024 48:01

15d ago48:01

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Topics: Communication, Drug Addiction, Parenting, Teens, Narcissists Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares the importance of productive talking with another person. My adult daughter has been in and out of rehab four times; is there another program to help her when she’s out of rehab…

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New Life Live: August 21, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Shame, Grandparenting, Discipline, Divorce, Dating, Engagement, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri Keffer shares about external shame and what betrayed partners are saying. My 13yo entitled granddaughter acted like a 2yo on a recent flight and deman…

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New Life Live: August 20, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Parenting, Drug Addiction, College, Childhood Trauma, Christian Walk, Estrangement, Necessary Endings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim Burns shares the importance of talking with your kids in healthy ways about sex. I tried to go back to school a few years ago but relapsed and had to qu…

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New Life Live: August 19, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Mold Issues, Physical Abuse, College, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Becky Brown shares the Seven Keys of Spiritual Renewal. My wife believes our house has mold, but we’ve had experts out to our house that haven’t found mold. Now my wife thinks I don’t care about my family. I was…

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New Life Live: August 16, 2024 48:00

21d ago48:00

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Topics: Parenting, Adult Children, Boundaries, Narcissists, Divorce, Difficult Conversations, Blended Families Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares why women are mama bears and have the strongest love on the planet for their children. My husband has Parkinson’s; our 21yo son always asks u…

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New Life Live: August 15, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Siblings, Homeless, Intimacy, Highly Sensitive Person Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc Cameron shares whatever you feed yourself, you will increase your appetite for. My 73yo brother is homeless, has delusional disorders, and is diabetic; how do we encourage him to get the treatment he need…

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New Life Live: August 14, 2024 46:59

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Topics: Same-Sex Attraction, Gender Identity, Grandparenting, Dating, Finances, Engagement Hosts: Becky Brown and Special Guest author, speaker, and pastor Max Lucado Caller Questions & More: Max Lucado talks about End Times in his latest book What Happens Next: A Traveler’s Guide through the End of This Age. What can a grandmother do when the publ…

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New Life Live: August 13, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Counseling, Controller, Separation, Caregiving, Resentment, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ West shares about the need to guard your heart by checking little cracks and crevices so they don’t bust wide open. How do I approach my wife of 28yrs about counseling instead of separation …

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New Life Live: August 12, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Feelings, Separation, Intimacy, Divorce, Finances, Tithing, Adult Children, Siblings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares why talking about our feelings works. Should I divorce or separate? My controlling husband and I don’t communicate and are only living as roommates. I div…

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New Life Live: August 9, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Disassociation, Incarceration, Forgiveness, False Accusations, Alcohol, Marijuana, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about checking out through disassociation to escape from hard things, and the downside. How do I help and support my bitter h…

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New Life Live: August 8, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Humility, Estrangement, Adult Children, Fear, Anxiety, Affairs, Secrets, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ West shares about having the right clothes for the job; are you clothing yourself in humility or pride? My wonderful son met a beautiful girl, but her family brainwashed my so…

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New Life Live: August 7, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Parenting, Mother Issues, Childhood Trauma, Divorce, Physical Abuse, Adult Children, False Accusations Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui-Mack Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares that when children are allowed to take risks and stay with their frustration, their frustration tolerance will lead to courage…

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New Life Live: August 6, 2024 48:00

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Topics: Coaching, Finances, Incarceration, Separation, Father Issues, Betrayal, Adoption, Adult Children, Weddings Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Gwen Burno, a New Life network coach, shares how mindset and money coaching can help clients move forward. My husband of 5yrs is a non-believer and is incarcerat…

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New Life Live: August 5, 2024 48:01

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Topics: Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Divorce, Narcissists, Anger Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc Cameron shares how we are tempted in our heart, body and mind, as Jesus was. I have a follow up question to my son and daughter-in-law not wanting me to talk to their kids about God.…

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#80: The Shame She Experiences 52:38

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So here we are! The final episode of Season #6. We start with me needing to loop back to something we discussed in the last episode where Jason said he received feedback from someone saying that sometimes when Jason mentions the past / the timeline, that he is shaming me. While I don’t think he is trying to shame me - I DO experience shame when cer…

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#79: Holding Her Hostage 39:18

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In this episode - we talk about how he can hold her hostage in the recovery process. We discuss this concept, of him holding her hostage, two different ways (or avenues or angles or well, you get the point). The first avenue is how Jason interprets “holding her hostage” which essentially is him holding her hostage for his past wounds and holding he…

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Regrouping + Resources 11:26

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It’s just me today, popping in to let you know we will be back next week with a fresh episode. I am sharing the quickest of life updates with you guys plus a reminder about a couple of resources that we offer. We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us for Season #6. For those of you that are new here, check out Episode #1 for Our Story. Ma…

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#78: Going Into Public with Confidence 52:01

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As we dig into the content of this particular episode - please keep in mind that these situations are SO nuanced. So please take what we are sharing and consider how it applies to you. What we share will not work for everyone in every situation. #1 - Clearly End the Affair - Our first suggestion for regaining confidence and to be able to go back ou…

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#77: Making Friends with the Work 34:42

6M ago34:42

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As Jason said early on in this episode - recovery work is painful. It hurts, it’s scary and no wonder we resist it. Jason talks about how he went from resisting the recovery work to accepting that there was work to do. It’s in this process that we make friends with the work. As Thomas Berry, a coach on our team, says - we go from “got to TO get to”…

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#76: The Duality of Hope 44:05

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Basically, I try to take over during the first five minutes of the episode as I talk about hope. Then I pass the mic over to Jason and you will probably actually like what he says much more. I just try to sprinkle in anecdotal comments as I can, you’re welcome. Hope is a handhold for wives in the following ways… 1 - it gives women a sense of securi…

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#75: Where Empathy Develops 42:02

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Get out your thinking caps - this episode is heady and I had to rewind many many times to re-listen while I was working on these show notes. We are talking empathy (and intimacy and conviction) today. I believe that empathy is one of the key ingredients that will help her heart heal within the context of the couple-ship. So developing empathy is KE…

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#74: Intimacy Pays Dividends 49:42

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In this episode, we get real honest about a recent series of arguments we had about money, with the intent of sharing with you guys what engaging in conflict can look like in “late recovery”. Not that we do conflict perfectly or recovery perfectly (as you will surely hear) but we get questions about what life looks like today - years and years post…

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#73: The Value of Full Disclosure 40:55

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In this episode, we talk about the value of the full disclosure and some of the reasons that doing a full disclosure (for both him and for her) is incredibly beneficial. Here are some of those reasons: - for men: integration of the story and the acting out - as in, making sense of and connecting dots in his story as a whole which informs the recove…

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#72: Frontloading For Her 37:19

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In this episode, we piggyback off of the last episode on Frontloading and discuss how women can leverage this technique in order to feel safe having certain conversations with him. This technique is essentially giving him a heads up that a difficult conversation needs to be had + insuring he is in an open space to have said conversation well in adv…

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#71: Frontloading 34:57

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In this episode, we talk about Frontloading, a term we first heard from Jennifer Kolari after doing some parenting therapy with her. See the link below for her information. Frontloading is the conversation we have prior to an anticipated event (or an anticipated conversation). Keep in mind, it's about a heart attitude, not about a playbook / plan /…

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#70: When She Feels Stuck 36:50

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In this episode, we talk about her getting stuck and how this can be (not always, but can be) connected to him NOT doing good, consistent work. Jason recaps a couple of things from episode #68 - What is Good Work (definitely check out that episode if you want to learn more about what “good” work looks like - see the link below.) We discuss four big…

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#69: In the Dilemma 41:20

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So, let’s say he is doing mostly good work. Oftentimes when he is doing this mostly good work, women are faced with a dilemma. Does she accept the good work and lean into it and trust it? OR does she hold him / the good work at arm’s length and continue to watch and wait and keep herself safe? We start with exploring some of the reasons she runs in…

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#68: What exactly IS good work? 38:37

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So what exactly is good work? And what does good work look like AFTER the initial stages? Because it seems like some husbands rock that good work early on - and then… they are done?! Jason and I are both encouraging you guys to honestly assess: are the things we list happening in my / his recovery process? And if not - what might it look like to ge…

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#67: Why I Chose to Stay 48:36

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In this episode - we are diving in to a question that Shelley receives quite regularly - why did you stay? And were you / are you embarrassed that you chose to stay? We start with talking about some of the reasons that can make it embarrassing to stay - for instance, in our culture - there is this notion that when a woman is cheated on, there must …

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#66: Dealing with Relapses 48:42

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It’s show time! Here we go - Season #6 of Redemptive Living Radio is HERE. On this first episode of the season, we are talking about relapses. I realize this can be a super tender topic on all fronts. Here are some of the questions we answer: 1 - What is a relapse? - In some ways, a relapse is VERY clear and in some instances, it can seem a bit arb…

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#65: Navigating the Holidays 49:24

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Welcome back to the podcast!!! We wanted to jump in and do a bonus podcast for you guys ahead of the release of Season #6 which will air in January, 2024. While it really is a topic near and dear to Jason’s heart - it’s also a PSA for ALL of us as we prepare to be with extended family over Thanksgiving and Christmas. The holidays can be really chal…

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#64: NOT Going Back to the Way it Was 45:48

1y ago45:48

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This week on RL Radio - NOT going back to the way it was This is the final episode of Season #5. We had a hard time putting a pin in this Season - we had so much fun laughing with each other (and hopefully with you guys as you listened in). I also realize that we bring out the tears in a lot of our listeners, so for that - well, I’m grateful that y…

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#63: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 2 31:44

1y ago31:44

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This week on RL Radio - Part Two of Moving Toward Divorce with Elizabeth Picking up where we left off, I start out with a quick recap of what we discussed in part one and then we continue to dig into more of what it looks like to journey well including having hope. Elizabeth mentions this CS Lewis quote - “One day all the sad things will become unt…

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#62: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 1 31:22

1y ago31:22

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This week on RL Radio: Moving Toward Divorce - Part 1 We are delighted to have another conversation with Elizabeth from the RLW team! As you will hear, we recorded this episode in May on her, as she said, “would be” anniversary. Oh, the timing. We didn’t know this when we recorded the episode, but our podcast producers shared recently that Elizabet…

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#61: Holding Her in High Esteem 38:22

1y ago38:22

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This week on RL Radio - Holding Her in High Esteem How can he hold her in high esteem? Being able to do this is - per Jason, a "quick win" and something guys can start doing today to make a difference in the coupleship and in their recovery. Typically, because of the pain he is experiencing, he will disparage her (to offset the pain). To do this - …

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#60: A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life 37:55

1y ago37:55

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This week on RL Radio - A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life What does it look like to "live out recovery” in day to day life? Maybe he is going to groups, getting therapy, not acting out - which is all great. But sometimes (oftentimes) - that can be all that is different. He is doing life the way he’s always done it otherwise. (And side note: …

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#59: Holding the Tension Between Two Truths 37:38

1y ago37:38

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This week on RL Radio - Holding the Tension Between Two Truths In this episode we talk about holding the tension between two truths. This can be a challenge for men in recovery because of the compartmentalization that occurs with addiction. (A big part of recovery is integration - as in, breaking down those boxes.) Holding the tension between two t…

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#58: God, Where Are You? - Part 2 43:35

1+ y ago43:35

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This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part Two In part two, we pick up with where we left off with one more of Thomas’s rock bottoms (in addition to the others mentioned in Part One) that became a pivotal part of his upward trajectory. Ultimately, Thomas hit a place of complete surrender which propelled him toward change, movement and growth. Th…

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#57: God, Where Are You? – Part 1 44:59

1+ y ago44:59

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This week on RL Radio - Thomas’s story - Part One Trigger Warning: We want to make sure that you protect yourself (and your children) if you choose to listen to this episode. Thomas shares his story, starting from when he was seven years old - exposed to pornography followed by years of masturbation and progressing from there. The first twenty minu…

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