Conflict Avoidance and Fighting Right

Finding Sanctuary

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Episode Summary:

In this riveting episode of “Finding Sanctuary,” host Debbie Draybi delves into the often-avoided topic of conflict within relationships. With the expertise of Eddie Reachie and Monsignor Shora the conversation uncovers the nuances of managing relationship pressures and expectations. This insightful podcast series draws upon experiences from professional practice and personal life anecdotes to guide listeners toward maintaining peace and understanding in their relationships.
Debbie Draybi sets the stage for a candid discussion on the impact of avoiding conflict and prolonged tensions within relationships. Eddie and Monsignor dive into the various types of relationship dynamics, emphasizing the drawbacks of avoidance and the merits of tackling issues head-on. Central to their dialogue is the concept of ‘fighting right,’ a method that ensures couples navigate their disagreements in a healthy and productive manner. This episode is rich with strategies on creating a safe space for open discussions, the power of permission giving, and the vital role of timing in resolving disputes.
Key Takeaways:

• Identifying three main relationship types: avoidant, validating, and volatile, with an emphasis on the drawbacks of the avoidant type.
• The significance of not just avoiding conflict for the sake of peace but learning to resolve disagreements in a controlled, healthy manner.
• The value of modeling effective conflict resolution for children, as it teaches them essential life and relational skills.
• Intentionality in setting aside time for crucial conversations, akin to professional meetings, to address pressing relationship issues.
• Understanding the importance of offering partners the opportunity to voice their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or immediate resolution.

Notable Quotes:

1. “The only thing we should avoid is avoidance itself.” - Eddie Reaiche

2. “You’re the CEOs of your home.” - Monsignor Shora

3. “Kids are like sponges and their exposure to relationship early on in their life is their parents.” - Eddie Reaiche

4. “Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?” - Eddie Reaiche

5. “It does take courage to be vulnerable and to believe in your love, believe in your relationship, believe in your partner.” - Monsignor Shora
Join us for a deep dive into the intricacies of relationships, where our seasoned guests share profound insights and practical strategies for turning conflict into an opportunity for growth and connection. Listen to the full episode to uncover the art of ‘fighting right’ in your relationship and stay tuned for more enlightening content from “Finding Sanctuary.”
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