Why Doesn’t My Teen Listen to Me Anymore?

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Why Doesn’t My Teen Listen to Me Anymore?

Do you ever feel like your teen tunes you out the moment you start talking? Or maybe every conversation seems to end in a heated argument? It’s frustrating, right? In this episode, I’m diving deep into the reasons why your teen might not be listening to you anymore and what you can do to change that. As a therapist and relationships educator, I’ve seen these patterns in so many families, and today, I’m sharing practical insights to help you reconnect with your teen.

In this episode, we’ll explore how the natural shift in your teen’s need for independence can lead to communication breakdowns, and I’ll offer some strategies to help you transition from being the “manager” of their life to a more supportive “consultant” role. Let’s dig into how you can model the behaviours you want to see in your teen, focus on building trust, and ultimately, foster a stronger connection with them.

Why Does My Child Seem to Ignore Me When I Ask Them to Do Something?

As your child grows into their teenage years, their desire for independence increases. This can often result in them appearing to ignore you when you ask them to do something. It’s not always about defiance—sometimes, they’re asserting their growing autonomy.

Why Do I Feel Like My Child Doesn’t Listen to Me Anymore?

If you feel like your child is no longer listening to you, it might be time to examine the way you’re communicating. Are you still acting as a “manager” in their life, or have you shifted to a “consultant” role? Teens respond better when they feel respected and heard, rather than managed.

Why Is Every Conversation with My Child Turning into a Battle?

Constant correction and criticism can make your teen feel undervalued, leading to frequent arguments. Prioritising connection over correction can help reduce these conflicts and make conversations more constructive.

Why Do I Feel Like I’m Losing My Connection with My Child?

Losing connection with your teen can be distressing. Building trust through consistent, respectful, and empathetic communication is key to maintaining that important bond.

Resources

Connected Teens Program: A six-module, on-demand training for parents of teens designed to help you build stronger, more connected relationships with your children.

Other Relevant Episodes and Videos

• Is Your Teen Changing Overnight? Here's What’s Happening
• My teens aren't interested in me. What do I do?
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